Etiquette



DP Etiquette

First rule: Don't be a jackass.

Other rules: Do not attack or insult people you disagree with. Engage with facts, logic and beliefs. Out of respect for others, please provide some sources for the facts and truths you rely on if you are asked for that. If emotion is getting out of hand, get it back in hand. To limit dehumanizing people, don't call people or whole groups of people disrespectful names, e.g., stupid, dumb or liar. Insulting people is counterproductive to rational discussion. Insult makes people angry and defensive. All points of view are welcome, right, center, left and elsewhere. Just disagree, but don't be belligerent or reject inconvenient facts, truths or defensible reasoning.

Wednesday, October 16, 2024

Let’s discuss the concept of “lying”...


We are constantly lied to, and by all kinds of nefarious (often agenda-filled) people. Those lies could be perpetrated by:  

  • Doctors or other medical professionals

  • Politicians

  • Religious communities

  • MSM 

  • Cable networks 

  • Social media

  • Telemarketers/commercialism

  • Used car salesmen

  • You name it


Do you think most/a majority of people love/want to be lied to?  If yes, why:

  • It makes them feel better

  • It helps them avoid something undesirable

  • It validates what they want to hear

  • Other




For that matter, what percent of people (I’ll call it) enjoy lying to others (possibly in my list above)? 

  • Do you know any people that you suspect often lie to you? Or,

  • People who lie to others because they expect a lie back?



What about exaggerations?

  • Is exaggerating really a lie?  

    • Hard Yes

    • Hard No

    • May or may not be

    • Circumstance dependent


  • Or, is it that exaggerations add “intrigue and entertainment value” to a story, so it’s not really officially lying? 


  • On a scale of 1-10 how many lies are merely exaggerations?  More than half the time?

    • If several, how egregious of a lie are they? 

      • 1 = itsy-bitsy … 10 =  whopper


  • Are these questions impossible to answer (without lying yourself)?




Lots of complicated questions about this concept of lying.  But people are complicated beings with all kinds of agendas.  I’m just wondering how lying fits into being a human.


Take your time and think it over.  Then, talk about your personal feelings about lying; the good, the bad and the ugly of it. You can pick and choose among questions or just give your overall assessment of lying without getting in the weeds. Your call.


(by PrimalSoup)

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