Etiquette



DP Etiquette

First rule: Don't be a jackass.

Other rules: Do not attack or insult people you disagree with. Engage with facts, logic and beliefs. Out of respect for others, please provide some sources for the facts and truths you rely on if you are asked for that. If emotion is getting out of hand, get it back in hand. To limit dehumanizing people, don't call people or whole groups of people disrespectful names, e.g., stupid, dumb or liar. Insulting people is counterproductive to rational discussion. Insult makes people angry and defensive. All points of view are welcome, right, center, left and elsewhere. Just disagree, but don't be belligerent or reject inconvenient facts, truths or defensible reasoning.

Friday, May 21, 2021

The great social and political value of reaching stasis in political disagreements

Abraham Lincoln and Stephen Douglas


Most people who engage in politics anywhere have come to understand that minds in disagreement usually do not change. Citing facts, truths and laying out reasoning rarely convinces anyone to change their minds. Often, maybe usually, inconvenient facts, truths and reasoning are mostly or completely rejected as lies, deceit and self-serving and/or partisan nonsense. 

In my experience, ideologues on the left and right tend to apply motivated reasoning, not sound reasoning, to the facts and truths they accept as real. That tends to make much of the rhetoric of disagreement irrational. The end result is that political disagreements usually melt down into people getting angry and talking past each other without ever reaching true mutual understanding. The end result is, in my opinion, usually more damaging to democracy and society than helpful. Generally, little light is shed and little or no humanizing understanding comes out if it. Instead, dehumanizing misunderstanding is common and society continues to polarize and distrust.

A few years ago, Mike Austin wrote a short article for IVN about the political and social value of getting to stasis in political disagreements. Stasis is the point at which people in disagreement understand and can state why they disagree. This end result clarifies the facts, truths and reasoning that provides the basis for disagreement. Onlookers can then decide for themselves what, if anything, to believe about the disputed issue. Austin's article has stuck with me because it gets at major truths about political disagreements and the value of clarity in political arguments. Austin wrote:
When Abraham Lincoln and Stephen Douglas held their famous debates in their 1858 Senate contest, there was only one issue in the country that mattered. The debates were entirely about slavery.

But there were not just two positions that one could hold about slavery. Nearly all of the American politicians in the first half of the 20thcentury took a position somewhere in between William Lloyd Garrison (who felt that slavery was an indisputable moral evil that should be eradicated from the face of the earth) and John C. Calhoun (who wrote that slavery was a positive moral good for blacks and whites alike and should be required in every state).

Emancipation was not even on the table in 1858. The major question at issue was how to handle slavery in the new territories that were then coming into the union. Douglas had hitched his star to “popular sovereignty,” or the position that each territory should decide for itself whether or not to allow slavery. Lincoln argued that while the federal government should not interfere with slavery where it existed, it should not allow expansion into any new territories.

These two positions dominated the Lincoln-Douglas debates, which were conducted in a format that we have never seen since. One candidate gave a 30-minute introduction, followed by a 90-minute speech by the other candidate, and a 60-minute rebuttal by the first. They were three-hour debates, and they required a lot more than sound bites.

But for all of that, Lincoln and Douglas spent most of the first four debates talking past each other. They both ignored the nuances of the other’s position and spent their time beating up the kinds of straw-man arguments that result from trying to force an opponent to defend the most extreme characterization of the position that they hold.

In the fifth debate, however, Lincoln changed his approach—and the course of American history forever—when he simply clarified the real terms of the argument:

"I suppose that the real difference between Judge Douglas and his friends, and the Republicans on the contrary, is, that the Judge is not in favor of making any difference between slavery and liberty-that he is in favor of eradicating, of pressing out of view, the questions of preference in this country for free or slave institutions; and consequently every sentiment he utters discards the idea that there is any wrong in slavery. Every thing that emanates from him or his coadjutors in their course of policy, carefully excludes the thought that there is any thing wrong in slavery. All their arguments, if you will consider them, will be seen to exclude the thought that there is any thing whatever wrong in slavery."

This was a very simple shift in a debating tactic, but an enormous shift in emphasis. Douglas did not disagree. He couldn’t. Even the suggestion that he felt that slavery was morally problematic would have cost Douglas any chance at the Democratic presidential nomination in 1860.

However, from this point on, rather than arguing about possible policies, or the intentions of the Founding Fathers, or the various implications of the Supreme Court’s Dred Scott decision, or any of the other things that they spent most of the first four debates discussing, they spent much of their time in the last three debates talking about the most important moral question of the century: Is slavery wrong?

Lincoln lost the election, but he created a sense of moral and intellectual clarity that guided him, and the Republican Party, through the 1860 election and the Civil War.

And this is the power of clarifying what an argument is really about. Very few political arguments today reach what rhetoricians call the “point of stasis,” where the parties fully agree about where they disagree. When an argument has not reached a point of stasis, participants almost always push past each other and argue about glaring generalities, ridiculous extremes, and culturally prominent straw-men. When an argument reaches stasis, however, political arguments become capable of revealing positions, changing minds, and doing the hard work of democracy.

And this is why, in my opinion, the most important thing that Abraham Lincoln did in 1858 was to clarify the terms of the most important argument of the nineteenth century.

Trying to get to stasis is why I sometimes ask people for information and clarity in their reasoning. It's not to change minds. Instead, it is to get to understanding for myself and onlookers. Clarity of understanding tends to be humanizing. Misunderstanding tends to be dehumanizing, which tends to leads to polarization and distrust. Both are seriously damaging to democracy and social comity, maybe lethal.


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